What to do when you have nothing to say

Maybe you’ve been where I am now – a bit of a funk. Not like a depression funk, but an “I don’t have anything to say” funk.

In a real sense I make my living with words – as a preacher of words, a writer of words, and a speaker of words to those who are discouraged and broken-hearted. So it’s a bit unnerving when I hit patches when I can’t find the words, any words, to speak

Some 2,700 years ago the prophet Isaiah wrote,

They came to you in their distress…they could barely whisper a prayer. As a pregnant woman about to give birth writhes and cries out in pain, so we were in your presence, LORD. We were with child, we writhed in labor, but we gave birth to wind. (Isaiah 26:16-18).

Maybe that describes you right now. If so, what should you do?

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Feel Like Your Prayers Are Bouncing Off The Ceiling? They Could Be!

Feeling like God isn’t listening to your prayers?

He may not be, for good reason. Here’s why…

(for those using a reader you can access the video HERE)

Why Are Some People Self-Controlled And Others Aren’t?

A question that’s been bugging me lately is, “What precedes temperance?”

Our church just finished the second week of a series called, “Do This, Not That.” It’s a series on the seven deadly sins – a collection of sins that have proved to be the most troublesome for Christians to eradicate from their lives.

The solution, Galatians 5 and other scriptures exhort us, is to focus on cultivating a corresponding virtue that ultimately supplants the vice we struggle with.

This past Sunday we discussed the deadly sin of gluttony, and how focusing on temperance (i.e. “tempering our impulses to spend, eat, speak rashly, whatever) cultivates the spiritual strength to withstand all forms of gluttony.

But what precedes temperance? When you see someone who oozes self-control, what causes them to be so? What gives them the inner drive to control themselves?

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Intimidation Letter Sent By FBI To Martin Luther King Jr.

The fantastic website Letters of Note recently shared the following post:

“In November of 1964, fearful of his connection to the Communist Party through Stanley Levison, the FBI anonymously sent Martin Luther King the following threatening letter, along with a cassette that contained the fruits of a 9 month surveillance project — allegedly incriminating audio recordings of King with women in various hotel rooms — headed by William C. Sullivan. A decade later, Sullivan told investigators that they had simply wanted King to resign from the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. King, on the other hand, had seen the letter as an invitation to take his own life.”

Read the letter and let me know what you think.

Despite his foibles (like King David, Soloman, and the multitudes of women and men in the Bible that blew it sexually yet still made an incredible impact on the lives of those around them), MLK was a prophet, reformer, preacher, and devoted man of God worth honoring today.

Especially when you consider what he endured to help so many…

Image courtesy of Paul Wolf.

Transcript

KING,

In view of your low grade… I will not dignify your name with either a Mr. or a Reverend or a Dr. And, your last name calls to mind only the type of King such as King Henry the VIII…

King, look into your heart. You know you are a complete fraud and a great liability to all of us Negroes. White people in this country have enough frauds of their own but I am sure they don’t have one at this time anywhere near your equal. You are no clergyman and you know it. I repeat you are a colossal fraud and an evil, vicious one at that. You could not believe in God… Clearly you don’t believe in any personal moral principles.

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Rejecting The “You’re Not Committed Enough” Guilt-Trip

Every time we turn around there’s a new book/pastor/church/sermon/bible study/seminar or conference telling us that we are wholly inadequate in our commitment to Christ.

The formula is always the same:

  1. Talk about how Jesus was this insanely committed guy who lived his life on the brink of starvation and death to help others.
  2. Highlight how we American Christians are fat, lazy, shallowly committed and innately self-centered.
  3. Heighten awareness by finding stories about Christians (usually in third world or persecuted countries) that are not fat, lazy and shallowly committed and who live insanely committed lives on 3 cents a day and risk death to help others.
  4. Round out your thoughts by implying that “If you were really committed to Christ you would…” __________ (give more money), ___________ (serve more), __________ (live more radically), _____________ (believe more fervently), and ___________ (visit dangerous places) just like Jesus and these other people around the world.

Who wouldn’t feel fat, lazy, shallowly committed and innately self-centered after being bludgeoned by that?

The problem is American Christians eat this stuff up, and it has nothing to do with Jesus; it’s all about the formula.

Imagine you became a little league baseball coach and were tasked with taking over a team of fourth-graders and turning them into MLB superstars. What would you say to them to motivate them?

My hunch is you’d be tempted to…

  1. Talk about how A-Rod and Derek Jeter are these insanely committed guys who live their lives totally devoted to baseball.
  2. Highlight how American fourth graders are fat, lazy, shallowly committed and innately self-centered.
  3. Heighten awareness by finding stories about fourth-graders (usually in Cuba) who eat, drink and breath baseball 24/7.
  4. Round out your thoughts by implying that “If you were really committed to baseball you would…” ______________ (throw the ball more), ______________ (go to the batting cage 3x’s as often), and ______________ (bug your parents to hire a personal trainer), just like A-Rod and Derek Jeter and all those kids in Cuba who would love to trade places with you.

And the fourth graders would eat it up.

But would they actually get any better because of it?

Of course not.

Why?

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The Perfect Plan?

There’s a small company in our area called ‘The Perfect Plan.”

They’re in the “helping people move” business. If you get transferred out of the area they’ll coordinate all the details of your relocation from turning off the electric to handing you the keys to your new home when you arrive. It’s seems like a great service.

Every time I drive by their sign I laugh and think to myself, I stopped trying to come up with one of those years ago.

I tried.

Lord knows I tried.

But the problem is every time I sat down to come up with a perfect plan for my life – complete with where I’d be, who I’d be with, what I’d be doing, and how I’d be doing it – every time, and I mean virtually every time, I ended up way off target.

Thank goodness. Some of the best things in my life have come as a result of not planning for them, but simply accepting them as they came.

Proverbs 16:9 reminds us,

In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.

I take that to mean that planning is a good thing, especially when it comes to things like moving. Relocating your entire family out of state and having your refrigerator end up in Biloxi and your cat end up in Las Cruces is not a good thing.

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If Hell Is Real…How Can I Help Others Avoid It? (4/4)

Week #4 Main Idea: The last thing Christians need to do is believe in hell again, but get all freaky in the process. God wants us to share our faith naturally, confidently, and poignantly.

Messages in this series:

If Hell Is Real…Why Don’t I Believe It?

If Hell Is Real…Why Am I Afraid To Admit It?

If Hell Is Real…What Makes Me Get Serious About It?

If Hell Is Real…How Can I Help Others Avoid It?

 

If Hell Is Real…What Makes Me Get Serious About It? (3/4)

Week #3 Main Idea: Christians are shaken to the core and start believing in hell (again) when they realize God is a God of wrath (and not just love), non-believers are going to suffer that wrath, Jesus paid the penalty so they wouldn’t have to, but we Christians must tell them about it.

Messages in this series:

If Hell Is Real…Why Don’t I Believe It?

If Hell Is Real…Why Am I Afraid To Admit It?

If Hell Is Real…What Makes Me Get Serious About It?

If Hell Is Real…How Can I Help Others Avoid It?

 

If Hell Is Real…Why Am I Afraid To Admit It? (2/4)

Week #2 Main Idea: Three things cause Christians to stop believing in hell (1) the ridicule of non-Christians (2) the false teaching of other Christians and (3) getting sidetracked with less important kingdom related activities.

Messages in this series:

If Hell Is Real…Why Don’t I Believe It?

If Hell Is Real…Why Am I Afraid To Admit It?

If Hell Is Real…What Makes Me Get Serious About It?

If Hell Is Real…How Can I Help Others Avoid It?

 

If Hell Is Real…Why Don’t I Believe It? (1/4)

Eternal Damnation, Really?

The first four years that I was a pastor I had a secret: I didn’t believe in hell. In this series I talk about how I came to the realization that I was wrong and how that newfound conviction upended my life.

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