You Can’t Medicate Your Way Out Of Not Caring About Anything

“Acedia is like morphine. You know the pain is there, yet can’t rouse yourself to give a damn.” – Kathleen Norris, Acedia & Me

Throughout church history, those tasked with leading men and women in personal transformation quickly realized there were seven persistent sins that continually set traps for Christ followers.

Over time those sins became known as “the seven deadly sins.”

The key to overcoming each deadly sin is not by focusing on the sin itself, but by practicing a corresponding virtue which over time supplants the vice we each struggle with.

In short, spiritual growth comes by “doing this, not that.”

This past Sunday we kicked off DO THIS, NOT THAT by talking about spiritual apathy, or what the ancients called “Acedia,” which  in Greek literally meant “not caring.” 

Acedia is truly a lethal sin.

The 4th century monk Evagrius of Pontus said that acedia was the worst of all the deadly sins because, if you become comfortable with where you are spiritually, you’ll eventually lose all urgency whatsoever to eradicate the other sins in your life. But acedia is not the same as depression, and you can’t medicate your way out of it. You can’t overcome it by transferring to another church, finding a new Bible translation, or joining another small group. Acedia is willful. It’s a choice. You have to fight it in order to overcome it.

Do you struggle with acedia? How so? How do you overcome it when it strikes?

 

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  • http://jonstolpe.wordpress.com Jon Stolpe

    Your title is definitely an attention grabber.

    From experience, I’ve seen where medication is necessary, but that’s a whole other story.

    To answer your question, yes. I think I spent most of 2011 struggling with this. Now, I know what the name of it is. For me, life circumstances were a huge driver in keeping me down. I knew God was real, but I sure struggled with understanding why He allows certain events in our lives.

    How do I overcome it? I think it helps tremendously to have some type of one-on-one accountability relationship with someone other than my wife. I think it helps to be in God’s Word regularly (daily). And I think it helps to be plugged into Christian community.

    Thankfully, 2012 is off to a better start.

  • http://tiltedwords.blogspot.com Diane Karchner

    Acedia sucks! Cause sometimes you don’t know you are there, until you may be deep into it. And then, it’s like climbing out of a deep well.

    Fortunately everything that Jon mentioned works. Even when it doesn’t FEEL like it is. Hanging in and keeping it up is the name of the game once you realize you have reached that apathetic place.

    For me, getting out of those acedia times – and they certainly haven’t been a singular occurrence – were always an opportunity to reflect and inspect what I was doing that really got me to that place. For it’s sure not God that brings us there, but decisions we have made, or are making to avoid or engage in certain things.

    If our life’s decision is to follow God, avoiding acedia is not the goal. The goal is getting closer to God. If we aggressively pursue that, then minor bouts of acedia may occur, but the deep well can truly be avoided.

    • Brian Jones

      Diane and Jon,

      Yep, acedia sucks bad. As someone who tried to medicate his way out of acedia, twice in 2009, all I can say is it really feels like the “slimy pit” David talks about in Psalm 40.

      I resonate with the idea of tracing your steps back out of the pit to find out how you got there in he first place. In 2010 I went to a counselor for the very first time (after going to my doc in 2009 and quickly asking for an anti-depressant…which I used for 4 months…absolutely hated it…). The counselor was Dr. John Walker at http://www.BlessingRanch.org. You’ve heard me talk about it. And then in 2011 as a part of my sabbatical I sat down with a god-send of a counselor from http://www.Lifecounseling.org . Both said the same thing to me – pay attention to how you got here and find ways to care for yourself – so you don’t get back in this mess again.

      There are certainly times to go for meds, no doubt about that. But this past season of my life wasn’t one of them. I truly was trying medicate my way out of not giving a crap about, well, everything.

  • http://www.momsneedtoknow.com Mindi Cherry

    I loved listening to this sermon when you gave it about 10 days ago, but after thinking about it, hearing you talk about Gluttony yesterday and being more inspired and wanting to know Christ more than I have in a LONG time, I have to take issue (in a good way ;-) ) with something you said in this sermon. I haven’t re-watched the sermon (too busy watching the ones that I have yet to hear), so forgive me for paraphrasing…..

    You said something like “If you are looking for this church to be the ‘solution’ to your wanting to know God, please leave, because a single church isn’t the solution to your problems.”

    I am a semi-recent regular attendee at CCV. Our family has been practicing Catholics for…well…since we became a family. Long story short, about 3 years ago I became so disillusioned with the CC that I stopped going to church and got kinda bitter about Christ. My children (5, 8 & 10) still attended CCD, have (so far) made some of their sacraments and my husband still took them to church most Sundays (while I stayed home)

    A few months ago, my husband came to me and said “What do I need to do to get you to go back to church?” I told him that I was getting nothing out of Mass, except 1 hour of “forced downtime”. He asked if I wanted to give CCV a try, since I had mentioned over a year ago that I thought the style and sermons were “neat” (The one and only time I had attended CCV was the Sunday after the Star Wars Themed VBS, because my children told me they had to go on Sunday in order to meet Darth Maul ;-) ). I said that I would give it a try.

    In the (roughly) 6 weeks since then, I have thought more about Christ and wanting to be more like Him than I have in more than a decade…..and it is due (I believe) to a change of church. CCV is not a bunch of depressing songs, rote recital of prayers, followed by a sermon that puts you to sleep. It is an upbeat worship service followed by a sermon that makes you THINK.

    My children absolutely adore the time they spend in Valley kids (as well as VBS the year that you had a Star Wars theme). They have learned (and retained the knowledge) more in the last few weeks than they have in several years of CCD because it is presented in a fun and engaging way. They would whine and complain that they didn’t want to go to church before….now they ask me several times during the week “Mom – we’re going to the Movie Church this Sunday – right?”. Further, because we have now found a church in which I am comfortable, they love that Mommy is once again attending church.

    And then I watched your “How Do I Talk To My Gay Friends” sermon and I knew that I had found a home…..a place where people can grow in and learn about Christ, but not a place that is focused on externalizing and assigning blame.

    So yeah – a change of church can make a BIG difference. For that, I thank you!

    • Brian Jones

      Mindi,

      Thanks for your kind words. I’m going to share them with my staff later on today. Looking forward to getting to know you! Catch me and say hello when you get a chance.

  • http://momsneedtoknow.com/ Mindi

    My husband finally broke the news to my (very Catholic) in-laws today that we had not only changed churches, but had pulled our children from CCD (which was a 10-month convo…my boys were still attending CCD at St. Mary’s while attending CCV)

    Their response was supportive, but slightly snarky (once he heard the words “movie church”, my FIL asked if communion was popcorn and diet coke (headbang).. but I guess it is a HUGE “defection” for my husband that they will just need to understand.

    I signed myself and my children (Hubs needs to work)up for the Feb 12th “Welcome to CCV” event. I am looking forward to meeting you and talking to you….especially about the whole “baptism by immersion” issue. All 5 of us in my family have already been baptized (via that Catholic Church) and I have a TON of “Jesus-freaks” friends (through my blogging community) and there is some debate about the immersion process vs. declaring yourself a sinner that needs help being sufficient

    And for me, with my family history and life experience, the idea of baptism by immersion brings up images of people talking in tongues at a river in Arkansas. It’s hard for anyone to embrace that!

    So I am looking forward to talking to you on 2/12!

  • David Knoecklein

    “…much of what you are doing you have no effection for. That is why you are exhausted. You are doing it because you have an abstract idea that this is what you should be doing in order to be liked.” WHEW!…no wait a minute…Whew.
    Blase’ Pascale, SEWN INTO HIS JACKET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!DUDE ! Can you believe it! YES ! I can….”Not the Philosophers but the Lord Jesus Christ!!!!” There are no words that I have other than “God in Heaven,bless the man Brian Jones, God, take care of his children, protect them and keep them safe, and Brian’s mom and Dad and his wife and all his family. Protect them Lord from the evil one, send your angels God and surround him and protect the joy that you have shown to Brian, IN the name of Jesus Christ. God in heaven protect us all. Keep us safe Lord because we are your children.
    What a day this has been.We shall rejoice in it, for He has made it. david Knoecklein

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